I came across Peggy McIntosh’s 1998 article entitled, “White Privilege: Unpacking the Invisible Knapsack of Privilege.” It prompted me to consider my own privilege. I am marginalized on three counts:
- race
- gender
- disability
I am a hearing-impaired African-American woman. BUT, that does not mean I do not have certain privileges. The first one that comes to mind is my body. I happen to possess a body that is approximately the ideal. I have been called a life-size Barbie, a living doll.** I am tall, thin, and amply endowed with long legs. In my daily life, I take it for granted (I’ve had this body for about 8 years). In addition to a fairly healthy self-esteem and self-image, I have a ridiculous metabolism.
My thin privilege grants me certain immunities in my everyday life:
- I can eat what I please without fear of gaining weight
- I am not perceived as sloppy, unhealthy or unkempt
- I do not know what it is like to step on the scale dreading the numbers
- I can shop a store without questioning whether they have my size in stock
- If my clothes don’t fit, I can have them taken in, whereas most articles of clothing cannot be taken ‘out’
- My body is less likely to be policed by strangers (unless I am deemed too skinny)
- I have only ever been likened to vegetables and legumes (string beans, anyone?) rather than animals (like cows and whales)
- I never have to worry that onlookers will assume that I am lazy from my appearance
- I rarely feel invisible
- I do not receive unsolicited advice regarding diet and exercise
- No one expects to change the size of my body
- I can pick up a magazine and generally expect that bodies like mine are not being mocked in the latest “Worst Bikini Body!” section
- I can sit comfortably in the seats in movie theatres, on planes, buses, trains
- My femininity is not challenged due to perceptions of my size
I can only think of 14 things. But I do believe it is important to be aware of my privileges.